Picture the eruptionalist as a spiritual storm-chaser, driven by the intoxicating thrill of conflict. He delights in fanning sparks into flames, convinced that significance lies in the heat of the arguments he ignites.

We readily unsheathe swords forged from our egos, wielding words honed by frustration, disappointment, and unmet expectations. Yet how often do we pause to discern if our perceived opponent truly stands before us?

Life—from classrooms to corporate ladders—is steeped in meritocracy. From early childhood, we learn to believe that those who do better deserve greater recognition, better opportunities, and higher rewards.